Because…
- You are really fantastic in bed.
- Sex with you is just amazing.
- He loves having sex with you and physical connection; you are like a godess among the garbage girlfriends he sees.
- You help him to see his value and brilliance.
- And finally, because you enjoy sex too and you are ready to have sex with him, which is why you have sex with him.
He believes and feels that with you he can be self and go wild with you. Some people are wired to have sex without wanting to be in some label relationship, dating, or marriage and see sex as an experience to explore with someone they can truly trust, admire and who they feel very safe with.
And I hope you don’s feel nothing; many will try to make you feel; there is nothing wrong having sex, nothing wrong exploring with someone, acquiring more experience and simply enjoying the experience for what it is.
An opportunity to savor with a buddy or someone you trust free from the trouble, fucking heart break, mind games and vying on who pays the expenses, wining dining and all the difficulties that follow.
Why, you can have all these complications if you want and the headaches that come with it, and the heart breaks; the many who will promise you eternal love, enteral divine romance, forever, happy ever after; every dating relationship and marriage always ends happily ever after.
Oh did I say? He also feels you are lovely, he cannot get enough of you and dreams about you and whenever he thinks of you, his heart racing fast and his dick becomes hard, his thoughts free and his heart pounds and all because of thinking about you.
Funny is not it, how it took someone else to persuade you to see it this way rather than the dark, gloom, blah blah way that be in your head and everyone else’s.
She says, “Oooh he just wants me for sex.”
That is, after all, what is on your mind.
Someone dates you always wants something. Either it’s sex, time, emotional support, either to ease their own anxieties or to show you off to their friends, either to feel accepted, liked, approved and loved or sex.
Not one of them is negative.
But when you enjoy it and deny it is what you want, that is stupidity.
When we are honest and clear about what we want, you may then be able to dress it, talk it, walk it, attract someone just like that and tell the others to piss off as it’s none of their business and you’re not into what they want.
And there is the delima as well.
individuals are conditioned to feel guilt for what they TRULY desire and yet the same individuals who want others to feel shame about it have no problem stealing from someone, wrecking someone’s life, backstabbing someone, doing other things since “it’s different because it’s not sex.”
The same regulations, same things meant to make you embarrassed of what you desire, generate billions of money out of it.
And you mentioned being self-conscious about sex, hence not surprising either.
For you, here is a question.
As he does, do you want same?
If not, fine, then tell him so and carry on; avoid blaming him if you too have a mind of our own and decide what you want and then say it. Should the individual object, you can move on.
